subs. phr. (various).See quots.
1749. FIELDING, Tom Jones, III. vi. As to Square, who was in his person what is called a jolly fellow, or a WIDOWS MAN, he easily reconciled his choice to the eternal fitness of things.
1833. MARRYAT, Peter Simple, I. vii. Note. WIDOWS MEN are imaginary sailors, borne on the books, and receiving pay and prize-money, which is appropriated to Greenwich hospital.