[a. F. boudoir lit. ‘a place to sulk in,’ f. bouder to pout, sulk.] A small elegantly furnished room, where a lady may retire to be alone, or to receive her intimate friends. Formerly sometimes applied to a man’s private apartment.

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1781.  Hayley, Triumphs Temper, II. 129.

          As the neat Daisy to the Sun’s broad flower,
As the French Boudoir to the Gothic Tower,
Such is the Peer, whom Fashion much admires,
Compar’d in person to his ancient sires.

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1785.  Cowper, Lett. to J. Hill, 25 June. I write in a nook that I call my boudoir.

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1786.  J. Adams, Diary, Wks. 1851, III. 405. In what he calls his boudoir—a little room between his library and drawing-room.

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1851.  Kingsley, Yeast, ii. 24. Argemone was busy in her boudoir (too often a true boudoir to her).

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1886.  Morley, Crit. Misc., I. 31. The paltry affairs of the boudoir and the ante-chamber.

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  b.  transf. The occupants of a boudoir.

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1821.  Hazlitt, Table-t., Vulgarity, 390–1. If the headstrong self-will and unruly turbulence of a common ale-house are shocking, what shall we say to the studied insincerity, the insipid want of common sense, the callous insensibility of the drawing-room and boudoir?

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  Hence Boudoiresque a. [see -ESQUE], of the kind appropriate to a boudoir. Boudoirize v. [see -IZE], to sit in or frequent a boudoir.

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1880.  Mrs. C. Reade, Brown Hand & White, II. iii. 59. How fond modern French painters seem to be of boudoiresque humanity.

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1883.  Harper’s Mag., July, 321/1. ‘It is a sweet hour,’ said Glorvina, softlt sighint.
  ‘It is a boudoirising hour,’ said I.

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